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I have been married for 19 years to a wonderful guy. When we met, he had lost his wife and 10 yr. old daughter the year before in a car accident. He also has 1 daughter and 1 son. I had been divorced for a year and have 2 daughters. After a year of marriage, we had 1 son together, our Ooops!
I have tried and am still trying to blend our families but everytime I seem to make 1 step forward something or someone has me taking 2 steps back. Does it ever get any easier??? My parents...