What he doesn't know can hurt you!

I have an associate who is married to a younger man and she has a dominating personality. She takes full advantage of his kindness. She controls the finances with a iron claw and has selective submission. I truly believe God made the man to be the head and if the husband is doing what is right by his family than the wife is not to lead. So she goes on shopping trips spending thinking I'll pay off the credit cards on my next paycheck. Well she gets sick, using all her of her benefits and eventuality losing the job due to the length of time she was out. Well this hit of reality woke her up because now the man she had taken for granted is now the sole provider and she has to depend on him and she can't do what she wants when she wants. It is sad that some folks have to fall on their butts before realizing what they have in front of them. If your married don't try to rule your husband because if you're the man than he doesn't need to be there. I had to learn that transitioning from being a single mom to a wife was hard because I was used to calling the shots. I learned that if you won't let a man be a man and make him feel appreciated another woman will! When he goes to work, the sports bar, his friends house or where ever there is a whore somewhere waiting for the good man that you don't value. If you love your man take my advice stop, apologize, and talk to him. Asked him how you can help so you can stop stepping on his toes and his ego. Men like their egos stroked ( Baby your awesome) not crushed by a women. They need to feel needed and appreciated. I also learned you reap what you sow! If you don't respect your husband, you can't expect your children to respect you. Your children are watching and observing how you treat their father. But once you change you will see things fall in place. A unstressed man lives longer and doesn't have erectile dysfunction so you can enjoy him.