[twilson79]

Who knows where I could possibly start????? My DBF was taken away from his birth mother when he was 6 months old (she was young and it was for neglect) and adopted at 5 years old. His adoptive parents pretty much put him on teh street at 13. He has no real relationship with them. We just received his pre adoption birth certificate and need to know where to start. There is no father listed, just his birth mother's maiden name. This was 29 years ago so who knows if she has a new last name now. He really wants to meet her or just see if she is interested in a relationship with him. Where should I start, has anyone been through something like this. We are very strapped for cash and most websites want you to pay and I don't want to pay unless we really have a chance to find her. Or is it just hope for the best with these websites. He wants to know if he has siblings, what really happened, medical history (I want to know this more I think). Any ideas or suggestions? Thanks guys.