group hug for you and your kids. I'm sending you only good Vibes. and praying that God will see you through this hard time your going through and to put his protecting hands around you and kids. seems like you have gotten good advice from here. be sure to keep all written and tape all conversations just in case. most of all. watch what is said in front of kids. he might not but you have to show them you are a better person then him.